Jerst, I actually think you already have the answers to this bud. Tonight, focus on spending quality time with her, she has told you that is important to her ad probably a LL for her. Be fun and energetic with your wife and kids. Have a relaxed mentality and everything you do tonight do in a lving manner. She is begging you to show her that you want her and love her without just saying it. Be the man that you were when you met, energized, happy, glad to be where you are... Most important here, relax, there are no eggshells unless you make them be there. It's your W man, you know her, just relax......
