Hey, this is hard work and by you being here, posting stuff that makes you look like a stupid jerk sometimes, you are proving that in some way, you understand that you are anything but. You are someone who is looking for help and understands that help comes in many forms, sometimes nice and sometimes not.
Learning to take the good, happy, supportive posts with the occasional 2x4 in stride, as you did with this one, prepares you for being in a REAL relationship and not needing to get defensive everytime your W, or friend for that matter, challenges you on something.
Good for you.
Keep learning and realize that as much as it sucks, in some areas of this, trying isn't good enough. You just need to do it...or stop doing it, whatever is needed.
