Hi jersting. Just wanted to reply to one comment you made in the last post.

My w calls me every night and I can tell she wants to be with me but is scared that something may go wrong.

I think this statement is really critical. If this is true, and you beleive it, then I see things like this:

It is now your job to make sure that she feels safe and comfortable with coming back to you. You have to stay the course with your changes. Continue to show her strength. Be her rock. Make coming back the more attractive option to her.

Stay strong and let her find her way back to you.

Take care,


S_O_T_S
aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface

I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall

Take away this ball and chain - Social Distortion

M: 10/3/04 - 5/23/07