Hey jersting, i came by to check on you, but after reading the last few days of your thread realize that you are in great hands here. All these folks on here are giving you incredible advice. I know personally that GH can be unbelievably helpful and knows what he is talking about. I alsoi gain a lot of perspective out of Xue and Sven when I read there posts as well. The only thing that struck me on your threads was this, you asked if you jumped into pieceing too soon? No my friend you didnt, look at what advice you are recieving in here, there was a reason why you moved over and it may be to get this incredible insight that you just dont get over in Newcomers pal. You are in the right forum for what you need to hear right now, God has a funny way of taking care of all that for us.
Take care of yourself and let me know if you need anything....