Quote: My question is... How does a WAW go from 2 weeks ago telling me she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me to being somewhat cold and not wear wedding rings now?
Don't try to figure her out. Gets you nowhere. I know, I spend way to much time trying to figure my W out myself and it has never resulted in anything positive. Figuring myself out, on the other hand, has resulted in tremendous positives.
Regardless of that FACT we all tend to still continue down the cheeseless tunnel of figuring the WAW out.
Work on yourself and work on your R (interactions, figure out interactions. If WAS does A which results in me doing B and that causes C and I don't like C then the only thing I can control is B. That's great because without B the interplay cannot play itself out. Just figure out what the variables are)
Easy sounding, hard to do. But it can be done.
BTW, a lot of people say how much patience I have, but the reality is I get in a real bummer mood every once in awhile too and want to give up. But soon realize that won't be a less painful path.
