Just getting started piecing it back

[jersting]

sometimes it takes us a while to understand what we must do. Decide each day to fight for your M to the bitter end,

Last night I called to talk to kids and when I finished talking to them we just hung up. My wife called me back a little while later and we just talked, no R talk just talk. I got to where I was going and I said that if she wanted to talk more, she could call me later. I wanted to call her so bad around 9 because she usually goes to bed around this time. I held back, my phone rang twice after 9 and I hoped it was her but neither call was. I had given up on her. Sometime after 10 my phone rang and I didn't think it would be her but it was. We talked for a while and I think she enjoyed the conversation. At the end of the conversation I told her that some of the books I was reading said not to say ILY to her because it could make her uncomfortable. I asked if this was the case and she said sometimes it does and some times it doesn't. So now I think that I should not say it, but I'm not sure if she wants me to or not. Any advice?