Just getting started piecing it back

[jersting]

Are you SURE she is lying or do you just suspect she is just because things she says don't add up?

I know for a fact she lied about having her private cell phone with her on sunday and she was on it when I tried to call. I asked her why she was on it and she said she wasn't, she said she didn't even have it. I found out from her that she did have it and she told me the reason she lied about it was so we would not have a fight.

Yes, there is a chance, maybe a good one, that trusting her, even a little bit will backfire on you and you'll get hurt again, maybe not as badly as before, but hurt never-the-less.

Yesterday we spoke on the phone a few times, she called me just as soon as I got off work, we just talked real brief and she said she would call me later. I waited until just before the time she goes to bed and asked if she was waiting for me to call or if she just did not want to talk. She replied that she thinks we went in to it too fast and she doesn't know if she is willing to give 110% right now. So I am at loss right now.