Just getting started piecing it back

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My wife says she wants to stay married to me. The thing is, I am not convinced from her actions. I think she is still talking to OM. She says she is not and I catch her lying alot. It is hard for me to gain trust in her. I don't know if I should be closing my eyes about the OM conversations and just move foward with her hopeing this will go away or if I should stay seperated from her until the OM is completely out of the picture and I know it for sure. She tells me they never had a PA, but I know they had been talking on phone for a least 4 months and had some run ins from what my kids tell me. I don't believe she did not have a PA because she continues to lie to me on other things. Do I over look these lies and act like everthing is fine?