Hallo Coca - see this as progress. He wasnt into C before, & now he is. Think of the perspective of the half full/half empty glass. See it half full! OK we know if they wont end A it makes everything a lot more difficult, but perhaps it just means what it is - he isn't ready to re-commit to your R, YET. But if he's agreeing to C, maybe it means he has questions. And if he has questions, his mind is perhaps a little open. And if his mind is a little open - there is a chink for you to look through, and reach out to him. From where you are, nothing to lose! My H wont give up A, so I know what you mean. But I am just sticking with the DB, and praying hard. Stay calm, Coca. Saph
