He came over today and stated that he is willing to go to marriage counseling to see what that will do for us, but he's not willing to end the affair at this point. He says he is afraid that if he comes back everything will be back as it was (in his mind everything was horrible between us) and he will lose what he has with this OW. How should I handle this situation and what should I interpret this change in mind to go to counseling. For the last 3 months he was totally against trying to seek counseling. I really don't think it is going to work if he's still going to continue his relationship with the OW. He's not giving it a 100 percent but should I just take what he's willing to offer at this point? Would I ever see him the same way if we do get back together? Is it worth trying anymore? Can I ever trust him again after knowing he is capable of doing something so hurtful and disrespectful? Is he going to respect me?
