Dear Coco,
I agree with wise ol' Saph. Breathe girl, breathe. You need to stop panicing...though I know the feeling. You may want to drift over to MLC board as it seems your H is suffering from immaturity which is much like MLC (could it be the same???)

If you choose to salvage your M as most of us here are trying to do, it will take a while. There will be no quick fix. the first things to do are:
stop panicing
dont beg, pursue, argue, pursuade or demand
pray
think about what is best immediately for you and your children
if the depression persists, seek medical help
find a good counselor who is promarriage

read alot on this BB and post when you need to

Sorry you are here...visit my thread if you need me
shockedandamazed