Yes, that's good advice and I have been giving her what she's asked for about the last year. We really have had very limited contact.
I've taken the focus off of her long ago. My biggest challenge now is my own self doubt about us. I'm having second thoughts about us now and it scares me sometimes to think what my reaction would be if she did indeed want to reconcile. I'm really starting to move on and I sense that window of opportunity slipping more each day. I know I would always love her, but I don't know if I want to be with her again if that makes any sense to you.
Maybe I don't have the staying power I thought I would at the beginning of this ordeal. I know from some of your previous post that you felt this way at times as well. Space and time are starting to chip away at my resolve. My strength and focus is spent on so many different things other than my WAW right now. I've always been a motivated and goal oriented person and tend to get caught up in so many different projects and aspects of my life. I guess I'm saying I no longer put such a high priority on saving my marriage anymore and that makes me feel guilty sometimes. I feel selfish that I want to get on with my life.
It's ironic that I'm the one feeling guilty over this, isn't it?
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
