Thank you all for your advice, it does make things a little clearer. My H NEVER use to be like this. He was always very kind. I guess I was unprepared for what my actions were going to do to him.
That is one of the many problems with affairs, you get wrapped up in one and do not think of consequences.
I think he is dealing with a lot. He had other issues in the marriage before this mess happened and we have been trying to deal with them.
I have learned quite a bit reading DB and from a lot of people on this board. Without it, I probably would not have made it as far as I have in this repair process.
A lot of what he says is out of anger and hurt, I realize that, but I also have to realize that things may not get better.
On a more positive note, our past weekend went very well. NO arguments and we seemed to be able to get along quite well. It was a nice change.
