Sweetheart, you have an extreme situation here that you can not DB. YOU and THE PAST did not alone make your husband into the abusive man that he is and for him to pretty much spoon-feed that crap to you on a daily basis infuriates me.
I pray that you will believe me when I tell you your mistakes are not deserving of his "punishment". He has allowed himself to dissolve into something less than human that feels justified in tearing you down ONLY because he is too spineless to turn the mirror around on himself.
You turned around, back to your husband and have obviously made one hell of a go at saving your marriage. Problem is, your husband was eaten alive by bitterness and HIS OWN UNWILLING SPIRIT that refused to do his part to save the marriage.
Bitterness was temporarily justified and understandable. That time has long since passed though.
He won't help you save the marriage and you can't do it alone.
