Thanks guys, I think you are both right.

This morning we are having "plumbing" issues and he is way more upset than is necessary, so I think there is a lot of hidden emotion going on as well. I just hope things are getting better on his side.

Our youngest is sick today and he offered to stay home with him so I could fulfill a school obligation, so that is good.

H has been talking a lot about future homes for the family, he even stopped by to see one we had been glancing at, all on his own, so I think that is a good sign.



Me 41
H 42
DD 11
DS 8
M 18
bomb 8/3/06
separating 9/18/08