I agree w/FA, it is still pretty recent and chances are your H still feels low, remember, men are much better at hiding emotions than women, so his self steem is prob still in the dumps. My H also wasn't into that game at all, I tried it a few times and he'd quickly said without any humor "nothing" if I said "what are you going to give me if I find zyz you were looking for".
So dont' take it personally, ok?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.