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Let me see, well the weekend was pretty much nothing, I worked the whole time. I guess we did have a good conversation. Since this whole thing started our phone conversations have been about 3 seconds long, just the facts mam type, because that has pretty much been what he wanted. Well I called on Sunday night, after the kids had gone to bed because they didn't answer when I called earlier, so H and I talked about the day and so forth, the weather was turning so he expressed concern about my drive home, nice to hear that, but it was the longest phone conversation we have had in ages, so kind of nice, a neutral talk with no expectations.

H is having a knee MRI this morning and I gave him a hug, whether he wanted it or not heh heh, before he left and wished him good luck.

Still very slow on the whole physical side, but in reading other posts I guess this is normal and just something we have to deal with. I don't think talking about it is right for us, I don't need to hear that he isn't ready yet, and I don't want to hear that he has no feelings yet or any of that thing. I need to just focus on myself and so forth. Heck if we were apart I wouldn't be getting much physical affection either, so at least as it is now I know there is hope.

Oh yeah one other interesting thing that happened, we were looking at the calendar and figured out my son has a hockey game the same weekend that H was planning on participating in a run, he sounded disappointed when he said oh I guess you won't be able to go with me. Yea! He wanted me there. So that was a good baby step.