you know what they say, when I women says "no, nothing is bothering me"it means yes, something is bothering her, if a men says no, most likely it does mean no Also, remember, it is extremely hard for men to open up and talk R talk.

Add me to the bear-the-MIL-for H's sake club, she dont' like me, I don't like her, but we try. I also try my hardest to NOT complain, both of us will gain more by doing this, so let's try to not let the ol' ladies get at us ok?

As for him labeling him a test, dont' sweet about it, prob a bad choice of words in his part. I think you did plenty when your MIL came over, you dont' want to come us as insincere either, do what feels right to you.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.