Quote: Let's see what else. I guess it is just a bit of a sad time for me because I was hoping for the open arms love fest, and the fact that this is taking time is making me fall back into old habits of doubting myself. Very easy to do.
This is how I felt for a long time, Snap. We think there'll be this big, movie-like ending, but what I've realized is this is a very long process. It's frustrating, but as it moves slowly you'll get the delight of a gradual buildup of love and caring. The slow steps show truth; in the end it will be worth it.
BTW, it took my H 3 months after recommitting to our M to say ILY. Let me tell you: it was worth it.
Hang in there!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!