So I would say we are a work in progress. H is pretty much moved home, he still has stuff at the duplex he rented, but he lives here. Our kids are very happy about all of the this, of course and I am so glad we are working this out for their sakes as well as our own.
I am a bit frustrated with the lack of ILY's and him reaching out. I know it will take time, but I just need a little sign, a twinge of that sort of thing. Our conseling session last night went pretty well and we really talked about some stuff we needed to discuss. I am happy that we are both committed to being honest with each other.
Let's see what else. I guess it is just a bit of a sad time for me because I was hoping for the open arms love fest, and the fact that this is taking time is making me fall back into old habits of doubting myself. Very easy to do.
I guess this will be my new home, looking forward to doing some reading.
Me 41 H 42 DD 11 DS 8 M 18 bomb 8/3/06 separating 9/18/08