I found out about my H's A in March of this year. H denied when I confronted him. Introduced Ow to his older kids in April, tried to introduce her to our d7 in July. MIL met Ow in July, rest of the family just met her about 3 weeks ago. Family was not impressed! They all agree that Ow is a piece of work! Obviously H doesn't think so, been with her for about 2 years now - if I trace back to when first started becoming distant.
Do you think that my H's A will be one of the few ones that last? I am starting to wonder. She must be doing a good job of fufilling H's needs or else I would have seen some progress with my DBing- don't you think? I started in Jan of this year with it. Many backslides though , letters, emails, VM's this probably slowed down my progress, but I think that Ow is my MAJOR stubbling block right now. IS SHE EVER GOING TO GO AWAY?
If she is the kind of person that H's family says she is and from what I know about her history - I think it is a matter of time before H begins to see it too. Ow's co-workers think she is smart, wonderful, pretty, and funny. How come family and friends see her completely the opposite of this? Who's telling the truth?
I never bring Ow up to H, I act like she doesn't exist , but it is very hard when H is parading his R with her around and we are still legally M!
How could she be a wonderful person b/c wonderful people don't get involved with M men with a family
* Sorry for the hyjack, I can feel your pain and frustration.
