I would suggest you NOT kick him out! Give him time to mend his broken heart (as hard as that is for you) and DB all you can. Show him what can be. They all think they have met their soul mate and that nothing can ever compare. What's so discouraging is that they sound so sure! Michelle says in her book not to believe a word they say when they talk like this. It hurts but its all one big fantasy. I believe DBing with him at home is a huge advantage to doing so otherwise. Throwing him out in anger is not a well thought out strategy although I certainly can understand that urge!
