Thanks aid. I have already told him that I have forgiven him. However, I feel like we are at a crossroads with the trust issue. My H says he will do whatever it takes to gain back my trust, that I need to tell him what to do. Does that make sense? How the heck should I know! He's the one who stripped my of it, shouldn't he be the one thinking about this? He says he is taking it day by day and working around how I am feeling. (which is completely all over the place, I dont know how he's keeping up!) But, is this how it should be? I have never had to think about the trust issue with him. How should he go about earning back my trust? Or is he already on the right track....going day to day. Any thoughts or words of wisdom would really be appreciated!