Quote: she is FULL OF IT. Of course she thinks she really knows him, a few talks here and there without the responsibility of kids and a household to maintain she feels she is better than you, she is a low life and don't you forget it.
Cat is soooo right about this. Also, women who prey on married men have their own problems. You'll learn that when you read more about all this.
One more thing, if you're having a super horrible time emotionally you might want to consider asking your doctor about possibly prescribing a low level of antidepressants. I have always been completely against ADs, but I can't tell you how much 10mg of Celexa a day has made my sitch 100x easier. I never would have thought I needed anything like this, but it's a huge difference. I'm no longer on the crazy roller coaster (although sometimes I do get a little nutty still). Anyhow, I figure 6 mos to a year on this stuff and then once things settle down I'll wean off it.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.