Well I am feeling good so far,,, MY H and my little boy left for their Vacation.
I hope this time together really gets them to bond more.

I have gotten smarter re: alot of things and I am taking this time that he will be away to really organize my home and get my home office in order.
I will also be trying to get in some me time just for me. I really need some down time just to myself to recharge and get myself ready for a New year.
And I will be 36 in a few weeks and I am feeling likke as I head to 40 these will be some of the best years of my life.

Santhony and GH you will be soooooooooooooo proud of me!!!
I have used what you 2 have described when dealing with my H on the phone when he is @ to blow up, just this morning as a mater of fact when he was getting angry and more than anything very, very impatient I asked him to calm down that I will be more than happy to help you with this ~~~~( DIRECTIONS AGAIN)~~~~~and I will let you go and call you back in just a few minutes and tell you exactly what you need to know,, So I hung up called him back and Wow that was so much better. I set my boundaries and he was ok, I could tell a little uncomfortable but ok. I also told him I am more than Happy to help you with Directions but you always get ugly with this and really I do not want to argue over Directions Plain and Simple. that felt sooooo good and guess what it did not get ugly.

I will post more later... lots to do.
IT IS almost Christmas ~~~~~
GOD BLESS...