Quote: This is hard work but it makes the reward so much sweeter.
Hey Ali -
Your right - it is hard work. But you are doing it and the reward is great. It is worth fighting for. I am so glad for you that you get this chance with your H. You can continue to influence him - keep him attracted - I have no doubt of this.
At some point - your H is going to have to do some work. The important thing is that he needs to want to make the changes. You can encourage him or guide him provided he reaches out for the help. Look for those opportunities where he reaches out and maybe help guide him based on what you have learned about you! People pay more attention to those who have come through the storm than those who talk it but never faced it.
