Alimari (((hugs))) Without sounding too much like a hypocrite I can honestly tell you that the stuff that goes on in our heads is usually worse then the reality of the situation.
I too am trying to let it go and not stress out about the stupid stuff and to really make an effort so that my mind will stop wandering.
We can't control our Husband's we can only pray that things will work out and that in time this will all just be a bad memory.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
