I have only told a few folks close friends. Don't plan on broadcasting. The whole EA thing brings it into perspective. I was blaming myself for her WAW moves, now I know she wants a lifestyle that she thinks she cannot have in our marriage. New car, fancy house, world travel. With 3 kids and self employed that is not going to happen. She is materialistic and thinks she can do it on her own or via a new relationship (he is a doctor!). My ally is her guilt and concern about her reputation. I like her guilt better. Last night I gave her articles about EA. She had never heard of the concept thus kept using the "just friends" line. Sorry late night phone calls, seeing him even though with the kids and his kids just about every weekend is not "just friends" She should gather that from the articles, of course she may still be in complete denial. Sad thing is how do you explain this to the kids?
