I agree with gh, she isnt' 10 for you to tell on her, she did a heinous act by having an A, and a good-talking to from parents/friends isnt' going to help anyone, she is an adult and she is the only one to decide if it is over or not.

Expose it to others for what? so they can keep it over her head in the event if she comes back? my cousin went through the same thing, she took him back but it took years for the whole family to stop thinking every time we saw him "this filthy awful liar, cheat, @#$@#)

I think airing dirty laundry is just going to make things worse, IMHO

I know it hurts like crazy, the the separation is the main issue, the A came later, the A isn't the whole reason.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.