Hey, bi, sorry to hear about the trouble but that email from your H is at least a ray of hope, eh?

I am a little concerned that you don't let him make it all about you being the problem.

Sounds like you know you need to detach, act as if, and do some serious 180s...and what a great time of year to do it in.

Now just do it and Godspeed!

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'