BI, it IS a ride for sure, and you are still on it whether you like it or not. In the end, you have to be who you want to be and hopefully that is the very same woman your H fell in love with.
Quote: The one thing I AM trying to do is exactly the OPPOSITE of my immediate reaction to things. If I feel compelled to say something, I shut up. If I don't want to do or say something, I do or say it.
This REALLY helped me a lot and led to a lot of my breakthroughs. I am the kind of person who used to listen just so I could hear when my next turn to talk came. Now I have to listen so I know what my immediate reaction is...then I do the opposite...well, I WAS doing that. I find the more I get back to a better place, the more my "new" instincts help me.
I believe in you. I really do, and if for no other reason than you seem to be using your wonderful gift for insight on yourself instead of the rest of the world for a change.
Please, keep the faith and know we are here for you.
