thanks whatisis! I do think going dark, detaching made a big difference, It was hard, but I needed to do it. I'm going to thank him for his nice thoughts and wish him a good thanksgiving. I don't want to address any hearttflelt conversations in e-mail and it would probably chase him away. I t was a good weekend. Keeping positive! Thanks for your thoughts! Do you have any further suggestions on how to keep this workin'?
