Oh just in case anyone is curious, the "big fight" was because my D used an inappropriate tone with her mother! So W is going to take away all D's sleep over party priveledges forever! Sounds rational to me, NOT. And she can't figure out why I stepped in? This is a repetitive pattern with W and D. Once I stopped W from physically slapping D during a "blow out", she has never gotten physical since. But, she just falls into a rage when dealing with this child. She tells me she needs to learn to walk away but NEVER does. She just ends up verbally slapping the child around in revenge, getting her shots in, there is no parenting or discipline involved. That is why I stepped in.She was just using her power to grind the kid into the ground. She turned on me but, hell, better me than our kid. I doubt I'll see her till late, now it's my turn to suffer cuz she won't come home. Wow, in my eyes, that's like winning the friggin lottery today
