Question? Shortly, our Wedding Anniversary is coming up. I'm thinking of doing a 180 and not making any plans but only responding to any suggestion my W makes. If she makes none, then nothing will happen. Fine with me!. There has been no agreement that I would take care of this. Now, if she suggests we go for dinner would it be appropriate to say "Great, where should we go?" or "I'd love to have dinner but not in celebration of our M, I don't feel that would be appropriate right now". What do you think? Any other suggestions? I'm feeling that for me to push the Anniversary dinner is just me pursuing and therefore continuing the same nonsense. Last year we went out as a family and it was a nice time. I bought a card and she actually made reservations at the resteraunt. Any thoughts here. Thanks in advance.
