Muddle, this car stuff sure is fun Please don't be concerned about the Last Resort example. I'm open to any alternatives, except the car crash one! I think I have to face the fact that my R is over. I no longer have to worry about how what I do affects the R, the R is toast! Finito. I can choose to attempt to build a new car, from the ground up, or move on with my life. The old is done, time to emotionally move on to another level. If this makes sense. Walking on eggshells wondering how moving my little finger is going to impact is a waste of energy and time. It is not empowering. Although it is not consciously done, I know it is there. So, onwards and upwards! Thanks again.
