Just a quick note to anyone reading my lengthy post! Please be assured I am not having an emotional meltdown here, my cheese has not slipped off my cracker I'm basically thinking out loud. I guess, I'm not seeing anywhere else to go besides what I have been doing. This is why I think it would be wise to see a SF Counsellor. What the heck is this middle ground? I know that my W's choice to go away for a weekend with OP has certainly had an emotional impact and it does bring up thoughts of "how long can I go on like this"? It makes sense to give something a certain amount of time to work its way out but now its become an embedded lifestyle! I'm thinking maybe the detachment idea is one I have great difficulty with. Most of the time I do my thing, enjoy my life but every few months there is a bump on the road, this is it! So, any thoughts are greatly appreciated here.
I'm basically thinking out loud. I guess, I'm not seeing anywhere else to go besides what I have been doing. This is why I think it would be wise to see a SF Counsellor. What the heck is this middle ground? I know that my W's choice to go away for a weekend with OP has certainly had an emotional impact and it does bring up thoughts of "how long can I go on like this"? It makes sense to give something a certain amount of time to work its way out but now its become an embedded lifestyle! I'm thinking maybe the detachment idea is one I have great difficulty with. Most of the time I do my thing, enjoy my life but every few months there is a bump on the road, this is it! So, any thoughts are greatly appreciated here. 