1210, Hey, was the show you were watching the "Get Ben Cable" telethon? I didn't know Tom had arranged air time yet! He works fast, doesn't he. Thanks for the quotes. I found it very helpful to spend my time collecting these kinds of quotes rather than sitting and immersing myself in my own misery, especially early on in the sitch. It is very empowering I find. One thing I have been doing over the past year is trying to feel things and let them go, not always successfully. Often I find my interpretation of what is happening e.g. my W's actions and motivation turn out to be complete crap. It's easy to take things and filter them through your emotional screens and then declare you know the truth BUT the truth is you don't! That's why DB is so wonderful, it is based on actions that either improve your sitch (and if so, repeat them) or don't (stop doing them). There's no need to know every minute thought and motivation of the other party involved. So, again, thanks for dropping in and did you actually pledge anything to the OSU fundraiser? I only have Canadian dollars, what can you do!!!