WOW...you got married on Xmas eve...how romantic...that is wonderful.
As far as the plaque with your poem...awesome, very personal and loving, I like that very much!!!
Hey, let me tell you...your W was very much aware of you holding her and stroking her hair...I've been her, we just keep our eyes closed, so you guys don't think we know.
If she didn't like it...she would have sprung out of that bed, you would have fallen out...