1210, I’m a little leery of doing anything too romantic like flowers, dinner, dancing. I feel it might push her away. Besides our special day is Xmas eve, have you ever tried to find a place that’s open on Xmas eve? It isn’t easy! Yet, I do want to mark the occasion in some way like a nice dinner but I dunno. Last year I got her a blank card and wrote something like “for each sound there is an ear to hear it, for every view there is an eye to see it, for every love there is a heart to receive it. Thank you for the years you were able to receive love from me.” She loved it! I put it on her pillow and she came downstairs and kissed me on the forehead, nose and lips, then thanked me for the card. So, again, I’m not sure where to go with this one. Do you really think the romantic route is a wise one, right now? What do others think?


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White