So true! And yes she is a perfectionist and is damn hard on herself, too. It makes me sad because she is such an amazing woman in so many ways but just won't allow herself to see it. She's always looking at what is lacking versus what is there, always looking to what's next rather than enjoying what is. I wish she could see the person that I love and have always loved. Thanks for reminding me, 1210 (but, man, she pisses me off sometimes ! )