I phoned my W to ask about the babysitting arrangements. I couldn't remember who was going to do what after this mornings brief interaction, as I was rushing out the door. I just asked her to let me know once she knew so I could let my mom and dad know whether they were needed or not. I also apologized for having embarrassed her by telling my mother that she (my W) had forgotten to make the arrangements. W said it was no big deal. So, I at least took responsibility for my part in this mornings adventure and that's really all I can do. What she does with it is up to her. What she does with her part is her business!
Another quick thought: Sometimes I wonder if I should be apologizing for these things. Part of me says, "yes, what I did was wrong, it wasn't intentional but it embarrassed her therefore it was wrong" So, it is right to apologize. On the other hand, I think "am I looking like a wimp for apologizing and maybe leaving the impression that I am taking full responsibility?" Just something that flashes through my mind right now. I do believe that it is always best to do the right thing and apologizing for what I did was the right thing (I guess )
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