Hey folks, I've got a situation to pass by you guys. One year ago I bought my W an afternoon at the Spa gift certificate, it expires soon. It was a graduation gift for her. She said I deserved it more than her for all the extra work I had put in while she did her schooling. Nice thing to say but a nicer "thank you" would have been not to step out on me! Anyway, I reminded her about two weeks ago about the expiry date, she said she knew so I left it at that. Now, there is nothing marked on the calender and she hasn't mentioned it since. Knowing my W, she has probably forgotten about it. I am tempted to mention it again and part of me wants to make an appointment for her rather than just lose the money. I'm leaning towards letting her lie in the bed she made and lose the money but you could also argue that the MANLY and caring thing to do would be to make the appointment for her. But wouldn't that be coddling her and saying "I don't think you are capable"? Reminding her is saying the same thing. Probably, doing nothing would be a 180 for me. Who knows maybe she's made the appointment but doesn't feel its any of my business. Any thoughts out there?
