Kansha, I started to post to you the other day, and then ran out of time... I guess I'm glad I didn't now, as you sound a little better, as of yesterday at least.
I will be very interested in hearing how your weekend goes. I know it's hard not to have high hopes & expectations, and misgivings, too--just go with them, and see what happens. Can't hurt, might help, right? I know you're not expecting a "miracle cure," though, which is good.
You know, even when they're not in an R w/OW anymore, it still takes time to get them out of their systems. Somewhere I read it takes about half as long to get over someone as the amount of time the R lasted. I don't know if that's true, but it may be a general guideline. I guess I'd say it took my H about that long--and me, a LOT longer to believe he really was "over her"!!
I'll be keeping you in my prayers, St. Kansha! Deb
