Kancha: i undrestand your situation because i still suffering something like that... only that i think they wants to justify their actions not only for an specific OW... no... they only wants to justify their need to return to teenager, to change everythinh on his life, because they find it bore, monotonous, they fear about age... So, dont let OW image low your self steem... it cab be this one, or another, or another, or a boat, or a motocycle....
