St.Kansha: I do pray that he will just get through the door. Then it is out of your hands. Once there, he will not leave - it would make him look less of a man. Let God & the counsellors do their job - you listen & learn too. & please sweetie, if he refuses to go, then go without him if it is a possibility. I so hope that doesn't happen, but don't set unrealistic expectations - you already know he is balking. Keep us posted. Barb
