Kansha: I'm so sorry to hear that things are a mess with you right now. I was so glad to meet you - it went so quickly. I have a photo of us that I will share with you as soon as I get it on disc. It is really good.

I have a little bit of advice for what its worth. Stop asking questions or being concerned. You've been at this for 4 years, so you are a master. He has agreed to go to Retrouaville. Leave it at that. Don't analyze, don't ask. Don't react when he says something about it he doesn't like. You just need to get him to go as he promised. Don't make it happen for him. Let them do their job & see how it turns out. That's all I can say. You have done everything humanly possible to work this out.
Take care, I'm praying for you.
Barb