Kansha: If you feel you need some clarities from a conversation with your h, just do it but always talking about your feelings, expressing what are your doubts, needs and always showing him strong and self caring... Never demand or ask for a behavior from him... i advice you not to talk about OW... at least an specific OW... just talk about trust you want to feel... remember, OW isnt the problem... the problem is in your h...
