Kansaw-My H was very mean before he moved out a year ago and was gone for 6 months. Then I found out aboutthe A and he broke it off and moved back home, maybe a little prematurley, but he's home nonetheless. At fiorst everything was good, and he was trying so hard to reassure me that he was being faithful. I could just not let go of my fears though and now he is saying he feels trapped. Trapped by my questions and nontrust. I have to change this or he will have had enoough one day and be gone again. This is the last thing I want to happen. He does understand my concerns but I have got to let go of my fears. Even if he was still TALKING to the OW which he says he isn't it just makes her look all the more attractive compared to my fears and mistrust. Its so very hard after an A to trust but we have to let go and do it if we are going to save our M. I have to really start DBing now to get him to see that Iam going to change in this area. IT will take him awhile to see it or beleive it but I ahve to start somewhere and before its too late! Rachael
