Kancha: Its horrible when our D (the person who we love more) depost their angry on us... i can remember when my h left home and my little D (10 years) began having horrible crisis, kicking me, saying me horrible things... affortunately my c helps me a lot dealing with this and i began going to a child c too who helps her a lot... My c always point me that my d deposit her angry on me because i am the one with whom she feel confortable and confidence to express his sadness, sadness that she convert in angry...!! My h never handle that crisis in the crrect way for me... he always questioned the way i handle her crisis... but i frgive that because i know it was his way to hurt me more during his angry phase...!!... So i can understand the sad you feel about this part of the whole turmoil...!!... and i am happy your h is helping you at least in your problem with your child..
