Sure you are...!!...
Also i notice you had set boundaries putting a date for cutting this separate sleeping... What if he insist sleeping apart when you move...?!!... And tell me something Kansha... Do you have evidence about he still being with OW...?... How you handle the anxious... do you feel anxious some times...?!!... And please excuse if i am asking too much but... Are you sure this is the man who makes you feel happy...?... i cant imagine me without any intime contact (just a hug) from my h for a long time...